Ilana Grace, LMT, ABS
Relationship & Sex Coach, Licensed Massage Therapist, Tantra Teacher
I weave together my specializations in massage therapy, Tantra, sex coaching, and conflict resolution to create a trauma-informed and compassionate container, in which I invite an environment of curiosity, consent, creativity and play. Personalized sessions are tailored to your specific needs and may include bodywork, as well as sex, relationship and Tantra coaching.
- Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach
- Certified Sexologist, American Board of Sexology
- Certified SkyDancing Tantra Presenter, Member of SkyDancing Tantra International and SkyDancing USA
- Licensed Massage Therapist
- Former mediator for King County, WA
- Bachelor of Social Science, University of Victoria, Canada
My passion is helping people access more pleasure, self-trust, and relational freedom. I love supporting a life of more truth, turn-on, and aliveness, where the full spectrum of being human is welcome.
Annette Ephroni, PMHNP, APRN, ABS
My passion is working through obstacles that keep us from the wonder, awe, and joy that I believe are our most natural response to the shimmering web of Life.
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, Tantra Teacher, Relationship & Sex Coach
I bring 20 years of practice in psychiatry and psychotherapy to my work creating deeply personal containers for expansion and authentic transformation. I love helping people understand how their unique stories, with their complex dynamics, challenges, and even wounds, can become paths to wildly singular pleasure, meaning, and love.
- Board Certified Psychiatric and Mental Health Nurse Practitioner
- Certified Sexologist and Diplomate, American Board of Sexology
- SkyDancing Tantra Teacher in Training
- Graduate, Somatica® Sex and Relationhship Coach Training
- Master of Science in Nursing, Yale University
- Bachelor of Social Science/Women's Studies, University of Utah
SEX AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING
PSYCHIATRIC SERVICES
MEDICATION MANAGEMENT
Psychiatric medication management can help reduce severity of symptoms associated with conditions such as depression, anxiety, mood disorders, OCD, PTSD, sleep disorders, psychotic disorders, and substance use problems. When needed, medication management creates breathing room, making it easier to rest, connect, and be more present. People may find they have more space to engage in therapy, self-discovery, and healing practices. Medication thus serves as a therapeutic companion on the path.
KETAMINE ASSISTED PSYCHOTHERAPY
Ketamine-assisted therapy offers a pathway of support for individuals facing challenges such as depression, anxiety, and trauma-related disorders. Treatment for appropriate patients can provide new perspectives, a window of symptomatic relief, and neurological openings for meaningful therapeutic work and integration.
Sex and Relationship Coaching
Coaching for Individuals, Couples, and Groups
Coaching with either Ilana or Annette - $175/hour
Coaching with Annette and Ilana together - $300/hour
Expand your freedom to live and love with depth, connection, and joy. In this work, you are invited to explore your desires and to discover, honor, and express your boundaries. Through playful, embodied practices, attuned presence, and authentic communication, we’ll clear old blockages, release the patterns that stand in the way of intimacy and vitality, and uncover what truly brings you alive.
Professional Domination
Embark on a journey where power, surrender, and desire can be explored with care and attunement. Professional domination offers an invitation to release the weight of control, discover the freedom in being held, and experience the deep grounding that comes from consensual intensity. Whether you seek therapeutic healing or fantasy exploration, together we create a container built on trust, boundaries, and respect where vulnerability can become a path to transformation.
Massage/Bodywork Services
Massage Therapy
With presence and care, I listen deeply to the rhythms of your body, allowing touch to become a pathway back to yourself. Finding where tension lives, I invite it to soften, melt, and release. Each session is slow, intentional, and attuned, creating space for you to drop into an oceanic state of relaxation where healing can naturally unfold.
Four-Handed Massage
Twice the touch, twice the flow—four hands moving in harmony to dissolve tension, quiet the mind, and invite you into exquisite surrender. A rare, nurturing indulgence that carries you beyond relaxation into pure presence.
Tandem Couple's Massage
An invitation to slow down together.
In this shared experience, you and your beloved receive massage simultaneously, resting side by side in the same field of care. Each body is honored individually, while the nervous systems attune in quiet communion—breath, presence, and touch unfolding in parallel.
This offering is about being with. About letting your bodies soften while remaining aware of one another.
Tandem Couple's Massage
Awaken to increased sensation, pleasure, and aliveness through a deeply integrative full-body experience. With the space to move at your own pace, you’ll be supported in identifying and honoring your boundaries, feeling into your responses, and finding your way to relaxation, trust, safety and pleasure. By gently releasing long-held physical and emotional blockages, you'll create space for greater freedom, expanded sensation, and renewed vitality.
Private, Custom, Facilitated Retreats
Custom Couple's Retreat
Custom Couple's Retreat
Custom Couple's Retreat
We invite you into an immersive retreat where sex and relationship coaching, Tantra, and kink come together in a safe, playful, and experiential laboratory. You will be guided to explore what you truly want, expand your possibilities, and breathe new life into your relationship.
Examples of what you might experience:
- Playful practices that spark new conversations and perspectives
- Opportunities to clear blockages that prevent closeness and connection
- Revitalized eroticism and passion in your relationship
- Ways of touching with attunement, power, and impact
- Practices that cultivate profound intimacy and trust
Cost: $2,500/couple (1 nights) | $3,500/couple (2 nights) | $4,500/couple (3 nights)
Custom Solo Retreat
Custom Couple's Retreat
Custom Couple's Retreat
Step into a private retreat devoted to your healing and awakening. Here, you’ll be invited to release what is stagnant, reclaim your pleasure, and expand your capacity to harness and cultivate vitality. This is more than a retreat — it is a sanctuary of healing, renewal, and sacred self-discovery.
Examples of what you might experience:
- Attuned touch and transformative practices to open new pathways of sensuality, freedom, and pleasure
- Practices to increase your sense of fully owning and inhabiting your body
- Sexological bodywork session
- Exercises to awaken and amplify your sexual energy as a source of vitality for your life
Cost: $2000 (1 night) | $2,500 (2 nights) | $3,250 (3 nights)
Group Retreats
Tasting Aliveness - Intro to Tantra
Meets prerequisite for SkyDancing Tantra Love & Ecstasy Training.
Love and live more blissfully and learn to transform the ordinary into the extraordinary! Tantra is a spiritual orientation that offers a way to experience cosmic connection through the encounter with our own body, other people, and ordinary life. Join us in this experiential laboratory, where we’ll create safe, sacred, and playful opportunities to explore different tools, weaving together your conscious awareness with your physical and energy bodies. Learn practical skills to increase your capacity for deeper authentic relationships-- with your own body, with others, and with the energy pulsating throughout all of life.
- Tap into somatic wisdom and recognize your body’s yes and no
- Understand and cultivate full presence
- Tune into your desires, and what you need to reach for them
- Learn to create the conditions/containers for deeper intimacy
- Embrace the possibility of surprise: new ways of relating in old and familiar contexts
- Unlock the power of your sexuality to fuel your vitality
- Experience an expanded sense of union with Self and Other
When: Friday, 03/13/2026 - Sunday, 03/15/2026
Cost: $800 - $1200, depending on lodging option
Upcoming Retreats and Classes
The Power of Touch
Flavors of Desire: Level 1 Kinkshop
Tasting Aliveness - Intro to Tantra
An Evening of Touching with Intention and Impact
Thursday, February 12, 2026, 6 - 9 PM
Tasting Aliveness - Intro to Tantra
Flavors of Desire: Level 1 Kinkshop
Tasting Aliveness - Intro to Tantra
Residential Retreat for Individuals and Couples
March 13 - 15, 2026
Flavors of Desire: Level 1 Kinkshop
Flavors of Desire: Level 1 Kinkshop
Flavors of Desire: Level 1 Kinkshop
Residential Retreat for Individuals and Couples
July 10-12, 2026